How To Improve Your Relationship With Yourself!

Gaining a relationship with yourself if getting harder and harder, especially in the twenty-first century. We are living in a world where social media is leaving us to judge ourselves more than ever. We are struggling to accept the way we look as we spend most of our days scrolling through photo’s of people who live their lives making themselves look perfect or edit their photos to look the way they believe society wants them to look. Yet, this is causing us to compare ourselves to the beautiful women. Unfortunately, we do not all look the way society wants us to look and this is making us lose the love we have for ourselves.

Below I have written a few ways in which you can start to rebuild that relationship and improve the love you have for yourself.

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Add in some affirmations!

A lot of people probably won’t be comfortable doing this, but this is the best and cheesiest thing you can do in the morning to help improve that self love. Stand in the mirror and look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself ‘I love you‘ ‘today you look beautiful‘ ‘today you are going to kick ass‘ and ‘I accept myself!

Go for a walk!

There is nothing better then some alone time and there is no better way to do this then going for a nice walk and forget about everything. This allows you to clear your thoughts or even battle with those thoughts your have been having to help get them out of your mind.

Go on a date with yourself!

You would happily go out on a date with somebody you love, so what better way to love yourself then taking self out! This is another way that you can leave to improve that self love. Even if you just take yourself out for a nice cup of coffee, go sit in that coffee shop and watch the world go by. Personally, I love nothing more than sitting in a coffee shop people watching, that way you can see how other people are loving themselves or even how other people are battling with their own self-love.

Find yourself a hobby!

Find yourself something YOU can do and enjoy! It can be the simplest hobby or you can go out and find yourself a challenge. This is allowing you to have more of that you time you deserve. Not just that, it is also helping you to find something you are good at, find something you can add to your list. Something you can be proud of and show off to others.

Start accepting your flaws!

I don’t know about you but this is something I really struggle with. If you cannot learn to accept your own flaws, how do you expect somebody else to accept them? This is a challenging one and it is something that you may not be able to do by yourself. Just start by finding things that you do love about yourself and would not class as a flaw. Trust me, you will find more than you expect!




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  • Reply corinne & kirsty

    I have fully accepted all my flaws recently. I was feeling really bad and decided that getting myself back together could only happen if I fully accepted who I am. i should date myself one day ahah xx corinne

    October 17, 2017 at 6:19 pm
  • Reply Chloe

    Hi, great tips all of which we should do but easier said than done, as I’ve got older I am learning to accept my flaws and love walking.

    October 17, 2017 at 6:25 pm
  • Reply Emma Matthews

    Such a lovely post, I am so guilty at comparing myself to Instagram models. I’m definitely going to take this advice, thank you xx

    October 17, 2017 at 6:36 pm
  • Reply Martha Molly

    I love this! I’ve just written a post about my mental health and improving my relationship with myself too; it’s such an important thing that people tend to forget about. X

    October 17, 2017 at 6:48 pm
  • Reply Miss charissa

    Love this post, it’s so different! I completely agree with this.

    I also believe that you should be comfortable spending time by yourself. Which took me a long time to do! My faviourate quote is:

    ‘I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person’

    October 17, 2017 at 6:50 pm
  • Reply Rebecca Rose

    This is amazing! Self love is often something i neglect! Great post hun, just off to subscribe to you EVERYWHERE. haha xx

    October 17, 2017 at 6:55 pm
  • Reply Kelly

    This is so true – self love is so important but so often forgotten. I’ve recently started to except & embrace my flaws

    October 17, 2017 at 7:58 pm
  • Reply Sasha

    …all much easier said than done! Lol

    October 17, 2017 at 9:54 pm
  • Reply PrincessHiyah Akanqi

    I agree with all of your positive words. I adore affirmations. It’s one of the best ways to boost my self esteem. Thank you for sharing! It’s a beautiful message. 💕

    October 18, 2017 at 4:41 am
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